Apology Message Board 17

Posted by KK

BOLA, I am truly sorry for all the pain, hurt, tears and sorrow I have caused you. I am sorry for letting you down over and over again.

I promise to make it right and amend my ways. You mean the world to me and I will make that evident by my actions. I love u dearly... Kun Kun

Posted by Bill Lacore

I would like to apologize to Barbara D. I was a bad husband and regret very much how I treated you. It has been 48 years since I've seen you. Hope you've had a nice life.

Posted by J.P.

Michael, I'm sorry I got so upset that night, that I questioned you, that I didn't believe you, and that instead of just walking away from our heated argument, I slapped you. I didn't think I could ever do that, nor did I think you were capable of what followed.

My life had been forever changed by your love, and in that moment, was forever changed by your rage. If I could rewind to that evening, that was full of fun & laughs, kissing & dancing, and change that second ...I would in a heartbeat.

That car ride home was the scariest and most heartbreaking moment of my life. I loved our passion, and I am so sorry it was what ruined us.

I'm sorry I moved on so quickly. That was an awful large hole in my heart that you left...and I couldn't live like that.

The man I now call my husband mended my heart and soul, gave me back my old self, and I absolutely adore him. ~ But I will always be sorry for that night, and I will always love you.

Posted by Brenda

Dear Catherine, I lost a lot of sleep last night feeling so ashamed of myself for talking behind your back. I don't even really know why I did it.

The truth is, I value our friendship a lot more than I showed. I respect you and admire you in so many ways. You've always been true to me and have always been there for me. Then I did what I did!

There are no words powerful enough to express my deep regret and heartfelt apology. I'll never do this to you again. I promise.

Please, give our friendship another chance. If you don't, I understand. Apologizing is so hard for me, but for you I'll do it over and over.

I'm sorry Catherine. I really am. Love, Brenda

Posted by Kathy B.

I'm closing in on 60 and only now realizing that I'm actually a pretty weird geek; and while the instances of my being deliberately and intentionally mean or cruel are very few and far between, I have been prone most of my life to blurting out things that, in retrospect, make sense to me but could easily be seen as unkind or insensitive.

I hope to deliver specific apologies in person sometime before I kick the bucket; but in the meantime, to all family, friends, acquaintances, schoolmates in kindergarten through grad programs, work colleagues, teachers, service providers, and total strangers:

I apologize sincerely if I said something that hurt or alarmed or even really, really annoyed you. You can rest assured that the odds are excellent that I didn't mean anything unkind.

I'm very introverted and socially awkward, and I just think in weird ways. The connections obvious to me are not, I know now, obvious to others, and no reason why they should be.

I'm definitely trying hard to do better.

Posted by Andrea

RJ, I didn't know exactly how to apologize or what way I could say I'm sorry that you would accept, and as you know I am not always the best at this, so here it goes...

I was wrong and I'm sorry. I was wrong to have opened your bag and pull out the book you purchased. That is an invasion of privacy and it is wrong.

I know I was/am wrong for doing that...no excuses, no rationalizations, no comparisons of what you have done that is similar, because the fact is, this was my responsibility and my responsibility alone to do the right thing and I didn't.

Do you want to know the irony? Yesterday as we were delivering cakes to the neighbors, I was looking at you thinking how wonderful it would be to have you beside me doing that forever.

I was excited about the idea of us having family over together for the first time and then the cake delivery.

Probably stupid to you, but it meant a lot to me and got me very excited. I hope you are OK as I haven't heard from you. Please let me say again I am sorry and I was wrong... Love, Andrea

Posted by Bob

Ruth, I am so very sorry about the way I treated you. You are easily the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I was too god-damned stupid to realize it. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

When you said, "We have no future" to me on the phone after we last saw each other face-to-face, my spirits fell with the crushing realization that you were lost to me forever and that it was entirely my fault.

I was such an idiot. You deserve so much better, and I fell so far short. I don't know what else to say. I could say "I'm sorry" from now until the day I die and it wouldn't be enough.

You are so smart, so beautiful, so super-competent, so accomplished, so funny--just so awesome; easily the most incredible person who has ever come into my life--and I didn't even realize it at the time (Don't get me wrong: I knew you were super-smart, -talented, -competent, -accomplished, -funny, -incredible-- I just can't believe that I didn't make you feel as loved, protected, honored, valued, and just-plain worshipped as you deserve each and every day and each and every time we were together).

You deserve no less. Knowing that I'm not there to kiss away your tears is just killing me inside. I am so very sorry, Ruth. You deserve so much better. --Bobby

Posted by Melanie O.

Dear Michelle Y.

I'm really sorry for what happened last Thursday. I shouldn't have let my emotions get in the way and causing me to hit you hard.

I finally realized that I was wrong. For what we have shared before, the wonderful times we've had, I will cherish it forever and I won't forget the day we first met at school.

Right now, I am trying my best to change for the better, though you may not believe me as of the meantime; But hopefully, there will come a time that we can talk to each other again.

By the way, I'd also like to thank you for the text messages that you've sent today. God Bless You and I hope to see you again. I love you.

Yours truly, Melanie

Posted by Becky

Dear David,

I am so sorry for the abuse that you suffered while I was in your life. My actions were unconscionable. I wish that I could go back and do it all over again - right.

Your anger is justified. I have no excuse for my behavior. My fervent prayer is that I can see you someday and make this earnest apology in person, but I won't try to contact you again. I love you, Becky

Posted by Robby

Brian, I'm so sorry for the damage done to your car. It was windy when my door hit it and you were so mad that day I wanted to let you calm down before I confessed. Please forgive me. I will pay to have it repaired.

Posted by Anonymous

To my parents: I'm sorry for lying all the time. I'm sorry for not believing you. I'm sorry for doing things that can get you into trouble. I'm sorry I've lost your trust. Sorry. my friends: I'm sorry for neglecting you. I'm sorry for not always being there. I'm sorry for being such an emotional wreck. I'm sorry for not being there more often. Sorry.

To my boyfriend: I'm sorry for not trusting you more. I'm sorry for being so paranoid. I'm sorry I don't like those girls. I'm sorry I sometimes have horrible/wayward thoughts. Sorry.

To myself: I'm sorry I've been so selfish. I'm sorry I've changed so much. I'm sorry I don't know what's going on right now. I'm sorry I can't make the right decisions. Sorry.

Posted by Anonymous

I am sorry that our relationship didn't work, but I am most sorry that our daughter will have parents in different homes, opinions and basically everything else.

Posted by Anonymous

To: Myself

Re: Him

Dear me, I'm sorry. I haven't respected you. I've let a silly school crush get in the way of dreams, plans, and my own self confidence. I can put some blame on him, but I deserve some of it too, after all I put up with it for a month. It's not fair. I don't know if I can do anything right away, but I'm taking steps to fix this frame of mind, change it so that it can be focused on things that are beneficial. Please forgive me. -Me

Posted by Chris

Dear Mei,

I am thinking and I am trying to come up with something that I can tell you so that you can forgive me, so I came up with this.

Baby, I'm so sorry that I hurt you with something that I thought was going to be funny. I didn't mean to hurt you, I didn't mean to make you feel bad and mostly I never wanted this fight to happen.

I know that whatever I say can come off as bs to you, but trust me baby it comes from my heart. Please forgive me for being an idiot. I can see that you love me and you trust me because if you didn't, you wouldn't be here with all the times I have messed up.

Thank you for just being you. TE AMO. Your prince, Chris

Posted by Ann H.H.

I am so sorry I have been having an affair with your husband. I should have broken it off when I found out that when he said "separated" he meant you were away at school.

If it helps, he's thrown me over for another woman. Yes, it's that woman you thought he was having an affair with and he told you no. I had no idea they've been together over a year. And if it makes you feel any better, her husband doesn't know about the affair, either.

Again, I am truly sorry. I will never have anything to do with your husband ever again but I wanted to explain why I can't be your friend on Facebook.

Posted by Mary

Matt--I'm sorry that I wrote to him. I'm sorry that I lied to you and hurt you the way I did. You are right, I'm selfish and immature. I don't deserve to be forgiven. I never have been deserving of the love you have shown me. If you want a divorce I understand. You are my best friend.

Posted by Anonymous

We were in 8th grade together in Catholic school in Monmouth County, and just before I got off the school bus, I changed what I had told you, and announced before I got off the bus that some girls were right who said I really wasn't interested in you.

I never gave you a real explanation and worst of all, I said what I said in front of everyone on the bus. I am SO SORRY.

Truth is, I couldn't handle a relationship then, and - this is no excuse - I was going to go to a new school and my mother was very ill and my father was always at work and I was so scared. I could barely handle everything that life was throwing at me, much less a relationship playing out in front of the other kids at school.

I hope you are OK! I hope that you were more mature than I at that time (you seemed to be) and that you understood that I was being totally inappropriate and juvenile. I am so very sorry to have embarrassed and hurt you in such a cruel way.